Hey everyone, William here. This is the uncensored story of how I cured my impotence and my journey with impotence cures. I’ll tell you about the hardships I went through and how after 4 years of depression, I finally found the one thing that helped me achieve my goal of curing my impotence.

This is the story of how I got hard again

Like many guys, I spent my 20s enjoying the company of women and being reckless. Who wouldn’t? I got a lot of good ’sex time’ in you could say. When I was 27 I ended up meeting the most amazing girl and we fell in love instantly.

At 30, I started to notice that I couldn’t get it up easily anymore. It kind of just started as a ‘every now and then’ type of thing and it really did come out of nowhere. I got a little worried at first, but didn’t think too much of it right away. Eventually though, I couldn’t get it up at all.

At first I thought it was me (psychologically), and I would feel extreme amounts of pressure in the bed room because of it. There was nothing worse then seeing the love of my life laying there all beautiful in our bed and I couldn’t get an erection! It was such an awkward feeling especially after so many years of my penis just working for me when I needed it the most.

I couldn’t figure out what was wrong with me. After 2 months of no erections, I got really paranoid and insecure. She kept saying that she loved me and supported me, which was comforting at first. She would always say “it’s ok, I understand, I love you.” But, being kind of the jealous type, my mind started to run in circles about “her wanting to be with other men”. I just felt so useless and less of a man because I couldn’t please her anymore. She also didn’t think I found her attractive anymore, which wasn’t the case at all! So, if any women are reading this thinking about their husbands - chances are it’s not you and it’s something more.

Anyway, eventually… she left me because of my unhappiness. I kept ‘projecting’ my insecurities on to her until finally she just couldn’t be with me anymore. I literally pushed her away - I still can’t believe I did that to this day. I spent the next 4 years in depression, my dating life came to a halt and I felt alone. I couldn’t talk to anyone about my ‘disabled manhood,’ it was just such a sensitive topic for me.

Finally, I got sick and tired of suffering in silence and decided to do something about my impotence.

The first thing I thought was “are there really impotence cures?” So, I ended up trying a variety of different remedies, treatments and drugs. I heard so much about Viagra, and decided to try it. It worked, but gave me headaches, dizziness and a ‘flush’ red face. Plus, I would have an erection even after the deed was done - sometimes lasting up to 8 hours! Sure I want an erection, but not one that feels like I can’t control it. Plus, I didn’t want to spend the rest of my life popping pills every time I wanted to have sex. It was similar with other drugs such as Cialis and Levitra. I still feel iffy about putting those chemical concoctions in my body.

I also tried some techniques at home to help me relax - mainly breathing exercises and things like that. I definitely noticed improvements in my mood, but when any bedroom activities occurred - I’d get nervous, freeze up and stay limp. I just couldn’t figure out what I was supposed to do.

I eventually found a NATURAL cure for my impotence!

After trying 5 different drugs and ‘breathing exercises’, I stumbled across a book that taught me how cure my impotence naturally. I know, it doesn’t sound possible does it? But, it’s true. The best part is that I got to do it at home, with no drugs. And this wasn’t simply the same breathing and relaxation techniques I kept reading about, it actually taught me how to get hard again.

The only problem with the program is that it took roughly 2-3 months for me to really see the effect. It was hard to trust that it would work at first, but, I stuck to it and I can honestly say it did. It really comes down to patience. It’s changed my life forever and I’m so happy I’m back to normal now. I never have to worry about being limp and embarrassed ever again, and am now getting married to my beautiful and understanding fiancee Shevon. Sometimes you just have to trust the process.

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When I first noticed that my main man downstairs wasn’t functioning the way he was supposed to, I got really anxious. There’s no worse feeling in the world then being in bed with a woman and you’re not able to please her. No matter how many times she says “I love you - it’s OK, I understand” - you still can’t help but feel useless and insecure.

I set out on a mission to find out what caused my impotence. What I found though was that there are many causes of male impotence. The main reason, in the end, is a physical problem. 80% of all cases of impotence are a physical problem, not a mental one. For me, it was both.

After understanding what caused my impotence, I found a permanent solution that cured my erectile dysfunction.

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So, what causes impotence?

Psychological Impotence Causes:

1. Childhood

Most of your current behavior stems from your childhood. Growing up, you developed certain ideas about sex. Sometimes we create ‘unreasonable’ ideas about sexuality - such as feeling guilty about having sex or pushing away normal sexual thoughts. If you are suffering from impotence, sexual counseling is great way to relieve pressure about sex and also discover a part of you that you might have been burying deep down inside. Sometimes we just need someone to talk to, you know what I mean?

2. The Media

Today’s media is off the leash. It makes us all over-sexualized and creates a sense that everyone is beautiful out there and having great sex - except for you. The media creates a ton of pressure to perform. As a male, it also makes you feel insecure about your manhood and your physical body. It makes you think “am I strong enough, good looking enough?” The best thing you can do for yourself is to throw your TV out the window - it’s really the only cure to get away from the media. Personally, I don’t own a TV anymore and don’t pay attention to the news. My life is a lot happier because of it.

3. Religious Ideology

I don’t want to offend anyone out there, but, religious ideology is something people do not like to look at in this case. Many of the major religions shun sexuality, especially before marriage. Also, there is a major ‘guilt complex’ that religions place on people, often making people feel bad about thoughts they may have towards sex. If you are a religious man, and suffering from impotence, it’s probably because you are subduing a part of you that wants to release sexual desire. In the end, we live on this Earth just once to experience what we call life. Maybe it’s time to open a dialogue with your wife about sex.

4. Stress

Are you stressed from work, kids, bills and the never ending responsibilities? If so, it’s time to examine the effects its having on you physically. If you can’t get hard because your life is “work” - then you need to take a time out. Book 2 weeks off of work for “mental health” (yes, you can do that), take the kids to your parents place and take your wife camping or some activity like that. Take a break each month.

Physical Impotence Causes:

1. High Blood Pressure

This is one of the main reasons. If you’re stressed out constantly, drinking a lot of caffeine and just generally have high blood pressure - it will affect how blood is transferred to your penis. This is also known as “Hypertension”.

2. Build up of fatty materials such as cholesterol

In medical terms, this is called “Atherosclerosis.” Basically, you have a build up of gunk in your blood that cuts off the flow to your penis. This has a lot to do with diet and the foods you’re eating. Eating healthy is a must if you’re impotent.

3. Heart Disease

Heart disease affects many parts of your being - but it can also affect your penis as well. If you’re suffering from heart disease and are impotent, you need to see your doctor.

4. Physical Injuries

Obviously if you’ve hurt yourself ‘down there’ - there is a significant chance that that’s what’s causing your impotence. Now, I don’t just mean being kicked in the nuts or something like that. It can also mean that you ride a bike everyday, and over time, the constant bumping has caused injury to your penis. If you think that you have a physical injury, you need to see your doctor.

5. Medication

If you are taking medication to treat ulcers, high blood pressure or heart disease - they may be affecting your erections.

6. Lifestyle Choices

If you smoke, drink, are overweight and generally unhealthy - it’s pretty much a given that you’ll eventually go soft. There’s only so much your body can handle!

There are many causes of male impotence in the end. These are just the more common ones. In the end, unless you are suffering from some major physical problems, you don’t need drugs to cure your impotence.

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Impotence Cures Video Link - Youtube

I made this video on youtube to kind of showcase how to cure impotence. It’s basically about my personal story and what I went through when I was impotent. I got really depressed for 4 years because of it. I just want to show that you are not alone out there, and I made the video so you could hear my voice and see that other people are out there and brave enough to expose themselves online.

There are real powerful ways to cure impotence that do not require drugs.

I highlight in the video that it’s about a mixture of drug treatment and at home remedies, which work for some, but not me in the end.

Click here to discover how I cured my impotence

Here’s some stuff I did that helped me a lot:

1. I went to new locations to have sex

I found that mixing up where I’m having sex, besides just my room is a good way to get it up. I rented a hotel downtown for a night one time with my fiancee. The 24 hour pool was empty and they had a sauna in there - you’re getting the picture. Outdoors is always fun too (just make sure it’s warm!)

2. I stopped putting pressure on myself to perform in bed

One of the biggest problems I had was how much pressure I started to feel to perform. If I did get it up in the end, usually I’d be so nervous to keep it up that I ended up going soft again. So, you gotta relax a little bit and remove that performance thing. Your woman loves you in the end. Sex is about communication.

3. I communicated to my fiancee before, during and after sex.

Usually, sex can just be a quick thing and its over. It’s best to communicate to your partner about it. Let her know how you’re feeling. Get past the ‘we don’t talk during sex thing’ and open up the dialogue. It’s ok to stop during sex, take a break, and continue in a moment when both of you are ready. This will help with the performance anxiety and give her a chance to play around with the guy downstairs.

4. I masturbated

I never thought I’d say that online but it’s true. If you have impotence, the best way to help yourself is to masturbate every 3-4 days to keep up with the ‘exercises.’ Get your man downstairs used to going up and down - muscle memory! Also, it will help you start looking at sex in terms of ‘pleasuring’ each other rather then ‘just getting it done.’

5. I eat healthy and get regular sleep

I used to drink and smoke pot a lot during my 20s. Sometimes I would binge for days. Now that I’m 30, I can’t get away with it as much. If you’re 40+, well, you’re probably starting to realize you aren’t the stallion you used to be. But that’s ok, it doesn’t mean you can’t have a great sex life. Just make sure you start eating healthier. More green vegetables and fruits, try to stay away from all that red meat and potatoes.

6. My fiancee and I played dress up and tried new things in the bedroom

I never did stuff like that before, but getting into costume and doing elaborate gestures to act out a scene is actually really fun. It’s all about trying new things. If you just do the same ol’ same ol’ everyday, then chances are that your penis is also getting bored - including your wife/partner.

7. Read some freakin’ sex books!

Sex books are the best way to help you through this. There’s tons of resources online for sexual health. Get into sex, you don’t know as much as you think!

Final Thoughts

So try some new stuff. Mix it up a little. We all tend to get into life routines and never really get out of them. Although these things will help, impotence is usually a physical problem and you still might need help getting it up.

Some sites ended up being ’spam’ - online only for the purpose of stealing my personal information and credit card. What a headache that was… In the end, I never did try any of the drugs that came in the mail - I was too scared to trust any of the sources.

What I ended up doing in the end was going to see a doctor. I know this might seem like the logical first step, but sometimes you think you can fix all your problems on your own. Plus, I was never one to think any ‘pill’ could help me. The doctor gave me a prescription for Viagra, and I ended up trying it. I will say, I did get an erection, but I started to suffer from headaches, dizziness and a ‘flush’ red face after taking it. Plus, my erections sometimes lasted for 8 hours  - even after the deed was done! Fine, I want an erection, but not for that long!

My advice to you is to make sure you understand what the causes of impotence are (I made a post above), and make sure to know that not all drugs, even if popular, will help you. In the end, it’s a combination of lifestyle choices and medical treatments. The difference is that some treatments have all natural ingredients and are good for you, and some are straight up chemical concoctions. Read through my website to get more information.